Sleeping on the Couch in the summer heat

I'm really lucky I guess because my couch is a futon just like my bed. I like a nice hard futon bed. I just turn it over now and then and I fell like I have a new bed. Summer heat and I am tossing and turning a bit to find just that right spot, that right position where I can rest comfortably. The hard bed helps but the heat makes it a bit harder to find. I am patient and I do find what I search for. I do sleep all night or at least I am now that I have a few nights under my belt. That first night was rough though. A hole lot of tossn and turnin going on to be absolutely truthful.

I can't lie to you. We are creating a relationship of trust here and I must be honest and tell you the whole truth even if it hurts a bit. I love to sleep and you know that is true from my past blogs. I really do love to sleep but especially after a very productive day of planning and dreaming and doing what comes next in my business. I especially need the sleep when I realize how I must think, feel and act to keep a balance in my family while creating a business.

Well that's a deep subject in an emotional pool of uncertainty and high anxiety. To keep in balance as a family in the heat of summer. That is definitely for another blog. I'll call the new blog "My New Doghouse" or "The Many Reasons I Sleep on A Futon Couch".

Sleep and Dream Recall

I slept well last night and had dreams too. A few at least. I have been in a habit to write dreams down so I can get what the inner dream world is trying to tell me. This dream world, on the inner, is helping me grow spiritually. It helps me emotionally and mentally cope. I awake with an attitude of "I can do it". "It will be exciting and rewarding learning new things and making them a reality". I find life is an adventure when I awake this way. Refreshing, like a spring day.

I need to write it down, whats happening in my dreams. I don't know about you but my dreams are important to me and I find that when I take the time and use discipline to get up and write it down I get all kinds of insights.
I discovered last night that it was very hard to get up and write it down. I had not been doing it because I was really getting into getting great sleep. I got lazy is my only excuse. Oh how I love to sleep but dreaming is an important part of my life also.

In the past, as a discipline I would program myself before I went to bed to wake at night with dreams right as they were concluding. I agreed with myself that I would only wake to the "important" ones. This reasoning and technique not only brought me good sleep but also wonderful time for dreaming.

I feel blessed.

I have trained myself to get up and with my journal on my side table I would jot quickly the essence of the dream. This way I got the point. The salient detail and surprisingly enough there would be a lesson there just for me. Those lesson are another matter but I love to sleep and I love to dream but I need the discipline to get up and write the salient details of those dreams.

Who am I? A side sleeper and sleep positions.

As an introduction please go to the links below. About me and my passion.

http://www.deepsleeppillow.com/about-us.html

http://www.selfgrowth.com/experts/lee_parimuha_dc.html

I am a side sleeper. My right side is best. I face my wife this way and seem to fall asleep here first and go back to it throughout the night. I also sleep on my left side, and what I call left side-stomach and right side-stomach. My last best sleep position is right side-back.

Body position is important in finding comfort. These are mine. Four positions plus a one! What are yours?

Sleep, Pain, Hormones and Avoidance of Medications

I am over 50 years old now which I understand is the new 30's. Thank God for this new attitude! I will make this new attitude a big part of my living but at times I feel like I'm older and pain can get in the way of my needed sleep.

I sometimes kick up new irritations to old injuries. A car accident in my youth has created degenerative bone changes in my neck. Not a big problem but I can see it on an x-ray. I have another injury to a shoulder from years ago that bothers me when I lift weight or at other times. Either of these could interrupt my sleep but they usually don't. I don't take a medication usually because I've learned that some irritation is good for the body so that cartilage is rebuilt and anti-inflammatories get in the way of this very important aspect of healing. So what do I do to guarantee good sleep? I have many things I've learned over the years.

Youth is wasted on the young, is an old refrain but still holds a lot of truth. Not to be respectful of youth but youth, in general, don't know how well they have it. I am a bit jealous to be sure. I didn't know how well I had it either when I was their age.

I now know that hormones that rage in youth are only a shadow of what they were in one's 50's. Darn! I knew there was a catch. I didn't know just what I signed up for coming into this body and suffering the injuries of my youth. I might have been more careful to be sure.

I can and do work on my hormones to help my body produce more and keep what I have in balance. This strategy as well as others I will be blogging about keep my range of pain and irritation low most of the time so I can sleep very well.

I love to sleep. I sleep well so I can enjoy life and the adventure life has become. Hormone maintenance and balance as well as the avoidance of anti-inflammatories help a great deal.
There are so many great ways to improve ones sleep and enjoy life. Stay tuned...

ATB

The importance of pillows.

I love to sleep as I've mentioned but I find I must settle in to "my comfort zone" by using pillows. I know when I was younger I only needed one pillow and is I was camping or roughing it a bit a folded up pair of Levis would do. The joke was "I could sleep standing up". I am sure there are many who can remember the day when it was really easy to sleep.

It is still easy to sleep but I've noticed I do settle in more now and the pillow I use is all the more important. I use a pillow I developed and patented. It suits me and my neck to a T. It is adjustable as I sleep and conforms to my needs as I change positions.

I mostly sleep on my sides and my stomach. I use two pillows one for my neck that tilts off the bed and comforts my neck and the thicker side holds up my head keeping the neck and spine in line. The other pillow I just hold on to. It somehow supports my shoulder and I feel more comfortable.

I guess some might say its like a "blankie"or a stuffed animal a child would use for emotional comfort when they find themselves in a new room away from mom and dad. I don't care how others might see it and I am passed the need to impress others with my macho. In the privacy of my own room I can find the comfort I need for deep comforting sleep.

Out of town travel and sleeping well too.

I went out of town this weekend for a little break and a father daughter trip. What fun.

A friend we were visiting remarked that when he travelled he wouldn't sleep well the first night.
The second night and then on I imagined he would have great sleep.

I found his comment fascinating. What a relationship we have with our sleep. Changes in beds, pillows and location have their effect. What do we not have on the "first night" of a trip that we find again on the second night? Maybe its change itself. As we all get older we need to change but it gets harder. We are set in our ways some say. I guess they are right, for some. I like to see life and sleep as an adventure needing constant attention so my love of life can shine and shine. I know its an attitude. For sure it has to start with me so my attention and my attitude for deep sleep reflects my zest for life. Kind of a paradox huh? Zest for life and quiet repose.

My friends comment reminds me of a story of when my family and I would go camping for the weekend. My sisters, familiar with the bathroom facilities at home often would hold off the inevitable, going number two, till they returned to surroundings they were more accustomed to. Its funny now, looking back but my sisters feelings of safety, and a sense of familiarity were very important. This sense, and feeling are also important when falling and letting go in sleep too I suppose.

Another night of good sleep

Nothing spectacular but a really good night of sleep. I awoke at 6:30 am in anticipation and for preparation of traveling with my 14 year old daughter to pickup our new camp trailer. We will take a couple of days We will fish a little and I'll get to know a bit more about my daughter and she about me. A time we will both remember for a long long time.

Last night though I had many dreams but could only remember a small part of one. I told a person in the dream that she had "either perfect timing or perfect aim". What it means , now that's for a different blog as soon as I figure it out.

Sleep comes easily for me. I was so tired last night I didn't get my contemplation in like I normally do. It is so nice to calm down from a hectic day into my routine before I go to bed. My contemplation for 20-30 minutes is a treasured time for me. I reconnect with my heart and my loves. I think of someone I love and it reconnects me to what is really important in my life. A nice way to get prepared for bed. A great part of my sleep time routine along with brushing and flossing my teeth and situating my wedge pillow under my head and neck for side sleeping comfort. All the best,

I love to sleep...do you?

Hi, I love to sleep but I work with many who don't get the chance often to sleep or at least that is what I imagine. It is either not high in importance or are still young enough to burn the candle at both ends and get away with it.

I've heard so many stories but continue to sleep well day in and day out. I dream a lot and find great solace and guidance in my dreams. My life would not be as full as it is without this time I spend in quite repose.

This blog is focused on sleep and how I love to sleep and how you love to sleep. I hope we can share our experiences with others who may not have the gift or find it difficult to deep sleep nightly. Nightly deep sleep I wish to share with you and I hope you will share your experiences with us.
My intent is to have those who don't sleep as much as they would like to visit and gain insight on how they too can sleep better again. Concentrating on what you want instead of what you don't have is always a better, more successful way to go about life IMO. We must be creators of our lives. Experiencing deep, revitalizing sleep must also be created. All the best,